You won’t find the first week of September marking the beginning of a new season when you look at your calendar. The first day of fall doesn’t officially happen until Sept. 23 when the sun crosses the equator bringing us a 24-hour period where day and night are both 12 hours long.
But in the practical terms of our day-to-day lives, the first week of September is the start of a new season for us. Labor Day brings summer to a close and we look expectantly toward the fall. School starts (yeah mom, boo kids). Football season starts (yeah dad, boo golf season and Sunday afternoon to-do lists). The new TV season starts (yeah … advertisers, boo bookstores, Kindle downloads and good conversations).
And like all seasons, this one will come and go; and hopefully, in 10 short weeks when that first snowfall comes, your snow blower starts, too!
Yes, our window of fall is short in Minnesota, but we are blessed to live in a corner of the world where the beauty of God’s creation will be displayed in all its glory in the coming weeks.
The changing of seasons has a way of naturally coming upon us. You drive by the neighborhood elementary school one fall day as the kids are pouring out and you realize that you no longer have kids in that building where they spent so many years. Then you drive by the middle school a few years later and realize that your little ones are becoming young adults and are now in, of all places, high school. And before you know it, you drive by that same high school and realize you have become an empty nester.
Or maybe you find yourself in another season of life this fall.
Perhaps you are fortunate enough to be newly-employed and not in school for the first fall in what seems like forever. Or maybe you are gritting your teeth as you grieve your first fall without a loved one who has passed, and you find yourself swimming in memories of trips to apple orchards and the north shore. Or maybe you are transitioning from one living situation to another, either in locale or relationally.
This fall’s changing of seasons may be bringing you hope and joy, or it may be coming to you with seriousness and heavy-hearted concern about what future seasons will bring. Whatever season of life you find yourself in this fall, this is a great time of the year to engage and enliven your spirit as God’s creation enters into a season of beauty, change and the peaceful solace of winter’s approach.
This is my first contribution to the Pacer’s “Spiritual Reflections” column, so the burgeoning of a new season is a place where I find myself personally traveling. And while the roads and trails that we find ourselves navigating are uniquely our own, there are markings and cairn along the way that benefit us all.
Here are four spiritual traveling tips for you to consider this fall:
+ The Journey is the Destination
Spiritual traveling is like a hike up a ridge along the north shore or trekking a trail in the mountains. Every step along the way brings something new: a new view, a new obstacle to challenge you, or an unexpected creature or fellow traveler to greet you. If you are focused solely on the vista view from the summit you will miss the treasures along the way.
+ Fellow Travelers Rock
Literally. They leave piles of rocks along the way (cairn) to mark the path of the trail for future travelers. And if they are with you and have been down the same trail, they can help you navigate where you are headed. Find a fellow traveler. Or better yet, find someone who needs your experiences and travel with them.
+ Forget the Pie Chart
With all due respect to the human resources professional who in the 1980s developed the “wellness wheel” that segments our lives into physical, spiritual, relational, mental and emotional sections, our lives are better lived holistically rather than fighting a never-ending battle of “balance” as we try to keep all the segments proportional and in sync.
Teilhard de Chardin wrote, “We are not human beings having a spiritual experience. Rather, we are spiritual beings having a human experience.” The world is experienced differently depending on your approach. And this is my bias, but I find that human experience viewed through a spiritual lens is much richer, deeper, and more meaningful than spiritual experiences that are viewed through a human lens.
+ Devour the Beauty
The beauty of the fall is sublime. It comes to us with the honest knowledge that the harsh reality of winter is part of our lives, too. And I think the reality of that pending season gives an honest richness to how we experience the fall season. We strive to gobble up all of its goodness and beauty, and even have a feast as the season surrenders to winter to celebrate and honor the gifts that the close of the season has brought to us.
As your fall spiritual season begins, do the same. Relish the beauty and savor each moment’s passing. Lay hold of this season of life and honestly embrace and enjoy the richness of human experience, its goodness and its grittiness.
Safe and blessed journeying to us all this fall.